Querida dama encantadora.
Hel collected those who died of sickness, old age or cowardice.
I would agree. I want to know all sorts of things about what my submissive is thinking, because it will make it possible for me to elicit the sort of reactions from him that make us both really really happy. Not just in bed, of course. If I know exactly what fears he carries from childhood, I can avoid triggering them, for example.